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Ben Gray

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Life: duration or donation? Print E-mail
Friday, 11 February 2011 14:48

Today, few would argue with the fact that everyone has been placed on the earth to make a contribution. To have our life measured by the ‘donation’ we make in this life, rather than the ‘duration’ - the length of time we live. It is clear, from my understanding of Scripture, that God has chosen a specific time and place for each person to exist. (Ecclesiastes 3:1-2) You are no mistake (Psalm 139:13-16). In God’s kingdom, the redeemed children of God all have a place, a purpose and function, ‘…and each one of you… part of it’ (1Cor 12:27). This contribution is connected to God’s kingdom at work in society and all of creation - in your life, work and worship experiences.

Right now my Vocations 4Life course, which has just gone online this week, is seeing people released into their calling and mission in God. They are gaining a fresh sense of purpose to life as they go to their workplaces (paid and unpaid), knowing they have been called by God to express His compassionate and caring heart to those around them. They have discovered that ministry, is not tied to the program of an institution, it’s who they are 24 hours a day, seven days a week.

Here’s what one brother had to say after completing a recent course: ”Vocations 4Life was very encouraging, reassuring and exciting in breaking down the personal Creational Grace Abilities and Vocations Grace Motivations that I God has given. However the standout area for me was the personal consultation that allowed a space for me to openly share and then to rediscover God's call for me through a new a clearer perspective. The course has helped me to see my employment as a ‘ministry call’ that God has designed and equipped me to do. It has also helped me to assist others in encouraging them to look for work and careers shaped around their God given gifts, abilities and motivations, rather than just looking at the possible pay packets and employment incentives.”

Did you know that you are on assignment? The original intention behind the creation mandate of Genesis 1:26-28, is to be image-bearers, to bear fruit, to steward and subdue the dominion allotted to man. Therefore, in Christ, you have been assigned stewardship responsibility in the earth realm. You have your ‘assignments in God’ (your particular garden) to operate in, to cultivate and bear fruit as part of your creation calling in Christ. Your assignment is unique to you and does not have to be connected to what we often call religious activity. In fact, your marriage, your family and your work all contain God-given assignments that you walk in. These assignments can be described as God’s specific purpose or intention for your life at any point in time. Some might call them ‘God’s will for your life’. However, it is more appropriate to say that the ‘will of God’ is based more upon God’s desire to have relationship with you, and your call to walk in holiness of life (Eph 4:1; 1Thess 4:1-3; 1 Peter 1:13-15), than on what you might do for God.

There are no rules about how many assignments you have or how long they last. They are part of your inheritance in God and are only limited by your vision and the choices you make as you walk with God. They change as often as the seasons in your life can change. Constant care and attention, in the midst of these assignments needs to be applied, to make sure that God’s purpose and influence are maintained through diligent stewardship.

Jesus said that the Kingdom of God is like a man who sowed good seed but someone came and sowed weeds into it. (Matt 13: 24-30) It also says that it was when everyone was asleep that he came and sowed the weeds. Be prepared to face the weeds that have been deliberately sown amongst your garden - throughout your assignments. These can occur through relational difficulties, greed, corruption, health issues, to name but a few. Anything that opposes and competes with the good seed that you sow can be classified as weeds. Take heart and don’t despair. Your assignments are your assignments and your good seed that you are sowing will bear kingdom fruit even through the weeds. The reality of embracing and realising the kingdom in this life can be difficult, as it requires you to live in the tension of knowing what could be and yet dealing with what is.

In your assignment (your garden), you are to plant the seed that God has given you, keeping your heart free from those things that may cause ungodly and unwise ‘weeds’ to grow. Then through embracing and collaborating with the Kingdom strategies like grace, mercy, love, service and forgiveness, engage the good and work to nurture that environment with godly wisdom and understanding. God always works in mysterious ways, His wonders to perform. The calling of God, and the assignments we are given by God in life are no exception. There is such a variety of experience that it’s impossible to conclude that there is a fundamental or singular way in which God makes them known.

In reality one must embrace the Kingdom of God in the richness of its diversity, wherever you are in God’s creation. This occurs more naturally as you allow the Holy Spirit to guide you each day even in the ‘mess’ of humanity that can befall us. Because this is where God’s kingdom is discovered. God’s amazing redemption story breaking into the mess: the rich and unfolding beauty of it as it touches people’s lives in and around us, often in spite of us. This is where God invites us to step in and become part of the unfolding drama of His kingdom, heaven breaking into the midst of life, even the mundane.

Make you life a donation – why not try Vocations4Life today!

 

 
From Grief to Glory! Print E-mail
Wednesday, 02 February 2011 22:38

A sentence that I’ve had running through my mind recently is “I’m bringing my people from grief to glory!” Now that sounds great, but what does it mean? Well here’s a thought! It’s a bit like moving from a wilderness season into a season of restoration and purpose.

Now, have you ever thought much about the wilderness?

I don’t mind revealing that it’s not a place I long for. It’s a place many of us fear and, given half a chance, we would gladly pass up the opportunity. It evokes thoughts of a dry and thirsty land, hosting many small and creepy critters. A place hosting thorny, spiked growth upon an endless blanket of infertile, parched land. The stillness of the atmosphere is isolating and broken by merciless, howling winds that carry swirling masses of irritating granules of sand that imperil vision and blisters the skin. What little life there is, is often impoverished, fighting hard to stay alive, always waiting those precious few drops of water that will bring another day’s survival. Hardly an inviting picture! Yet friend, the wilderness is unavoidable; it’s a principle of God. He created us to move through spiritual seasons, just as He created the earth to move through physical seasons. And whether we like it or not, some of our seasons will be in the wilderness.

In this blog I want to comment on three ways that wilderness seasons occur. First like Christ’s experience, we enter through obedience to God’s leading. After His Baptism, Jesus was led by the Holy Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted. His obedience in the wilderness defeated Satan’s plans to disqualify Him, and from the wilderness He was released into His ministry.

Friends it’s in the season of being in the wilderness through obedience, that we willingly follow our Lord into suffering. We do this in order that we might defeat the enemy; to gain what we need to move out of this wilderness experience in victory, and in power move into God’s next assignment for us. Therefore in obedience, always return from your wilderness experience in victory and in power.

The second way that a wilderness season can occur is through personal sin. Remember in the Old Testament how the Israelites after leaving Egypt found themselves in such a position? They had entered into the wilderness out of obedience to God, yet while there, they sinned grievously against the Lord. He then promised them, that before they would enter their promise land, He would purge that sinful generation from them. Their wandering in the wilderness took them 40 years. A whole generation had to pass before the promise could be fulfilled.

God must purge sin issues from our life before we can enter into the fullness of His promises for us. This applies individually as much as it does corporately. Are there sin issues holding up your God given promises? How you respond in the wilderness will determine your next season and assignments in God. Remember that if Moses had not disobeyed the Lord in the wilderness, he would have been allowed to enter the Promised Land.

The third way we enter wilderness seasons is being thrust into them through situations and circumstances beyond our control. Many I’m sure can relate to this, where through no fault of your own, you find your circumstances beyond your control. Such was the case of a man called Job. Job experienced incredible loss, pain and personal hardship, not as a result of sin or a choice he made, but rather as a result of being, ‘tested by God’. There have been at least four or five times in my life like this. Times where I’ve had to trust myself and those around me; to hold to my personal faith and my unshakeable trust in the God I knew, and in the way I’ve lived my life before men.

Now not every loss in our life is due to some ‘cosmic – wager’, as it was with Job. However, God and Satan do watch our personal choices and responses when we are in these wilderness seasons. Both God and Satan are looking for a chance. God is looking for His big chance to single you out so that He can pour Grace into you, to restore, to release and to bless. Satan, on the other hand, is looking for a chance to bring disappointment, loss of vision, loss of hope and confusion, and through bondage keep you from moving forward in obedience and trust in your loving Father.

Remember Moses experience in the wilderness? He never entered into the promise land. How you respond in your wilderness season, determines your next season. Obedience and making the tough decision to trust God and participate with Him in the wilderness will enable you to walk in God’s plan and purpose for your life – even if you can’t see fully the road ahead.

Therefore don’t be overcome with grief, disappointment or immobilised through loss in wilderness seasons, as they are often an emotional but unavoidable part of life. Hosea, speaking on behalf of God says, I will allure her …bring her into the wilderness and speak comfort to her. (Hosea 2:14 NKJV) If you listen, during your times in the wilderness, you will hear God speaking to you, breathing life, hope and comfort into your spirit.

Friend take it from me, it’s important to walk through the painful reality of these wilderness experiences: to participate fully with God’s plan for your life and let Him restore you and move you forward into your next season.

Respond in faith and let Him lead you from grief to glory!

 

 
His kingdom in the midst of the mess! – a city on the mend! Print E-mail
Tuesday, 18 January 2011 10:54

brisbane_city_floodRight now across my city of Brisbane, tens of thousands of volunteers are out in suburbs helping the thousands that have seen their homes, business and communities, devastated by the recent flooding of the Brisbane River, a one in a hundred year flood. Anna Bligh, Queensland’s Premier, has likened it to a war zone and compared the work needing to get the city and region back to normal, to a post-war reconstruction that will cost billions. It has been said that the economic impact of the flooding on the Australian economy is expected to be bigger than the impact of Hurricane Katrina on the US economy.

My wife and I were out last weekend helping, like so many, total strangers in communities that we rarely if ever visit. The sense of community spirit, good will and practical assistance amidst such total devastation was quite something to beheld. It was deeply moving as it was overwhelming in the magnitude of the carnage that one encountered. News reporters called it “Brisbane’s salvation Saturday”, another, “Sunday muddy Sunday”.sherwood_

Much is still to be done. The effects of the floods will take months and in many cases years to overcome. However in the coming weeks and months, as people start to feel the deep sense of grief, loss and emotional dislocation, people will need people. As the Christian community we need to do two things; pray for all those affected to have strength to endure, and to be on hand to be the Body of Christ demonstrating in loving and practical ways, God’s touch to lives so traumatized by this disaster.

We also need to pray for those who are engaged in coordinating the relief and rebuilding effort, making the long-term decisions re the cities future, that they be granted the ability to make the right decisions amidst the confusion that ineligibly arises at times like this.

What we see happening through people across our city and region right now, Christian and non-Christian alike, is, the common grace of a loving God at work. In reality, His kingdom characteristic of love, encouragement, service, mercy, compassion and cheerful giving, flowing from person to person, home-to-home, street to street. The one fact that make us all equal; we are all made in the image of a loving God and it’s His nature which is being seen as people reach out to family, neighbours and total strangers who are in need.

People are being motivated by that deep inner sense of goodness and love for others, the true stuff that builds community. I heard a young child’s mother say today, how her daughter said, “Mum, I’m so proud of our community, this is a great place to live.” What a legacy to come out of such a time as this.

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Now let me share some kingdom thoughts with you.

There’s not a day that goes by where people do not connect with and move in and out of God's kingdom as it breaks in around them. Therefore we need to observe it, learn to read it, and then find ways to individually connect and collaborate with it in the lives of people and all of creation.

Let me explain what I mean. The kingdom is at work! It is definitely sin stained, fragmented, marred and distorted in the lives and the world of the unredeemed. It is there nevertheless. ‘Really?’ I can almost hear you say. We must never forget that regardless of who they are or what their life is like, they are made in the image of God. (James 3:9) Our commission as disciples of Jesus is to connect with this kingdom reality. We do this by embracing it, engaging with the good of God that you see in the lives of others, seeking to bring the light, truth and love of Jesus into their world in a diversity of ways. In this way, we begin to recognize and then affirm the kingdom at work in the lives of people.

For instance, a woman desiring to be a good mum—that's kingdom. A man wanting to provide for his family—that's kingdom. A student refusing the pressure of drugs—that's kingdom. The employer who shows care for his workers and seeks their good will—that’s kingdom. Someone passionate about the environment, the plight of the poor and disadvantaged: child trafficking or in not exploiting creation for profitthat’s kingdom.

As we discover ways to engage with God’s kingdom at work, in society and creation, to care for and show love to those around us, we are better placed to share the sacrificial love of Jesus.

The kingdom is! (Matthew 13) We are its witnesses. It is both the gospel of Jesus (incarnate) and the gospel about Jesus (evangel).

And as you seek to engage with your inheritance in all of creation, the Holy Spirit brings you more and more into the fullness and richness of the image and nature of Jesus Christ. This is the image that all creation is longing to see burst forth; one that will finally answer the cry of creation, setting it free from bondage and decay and bring it into the ‘glorious freedom of the children of God.’ (Romans 8:21 NIV)At such a time as this, may many encounter the real Jesus and His loving embrace!

 
Looking back - going forward! Print E-mail
Friday, 31 December 2010 13:58

There’s a story in the Old Testament about how Joshua was directed by the Lord to instruct the tribes of Israel to build a monument of stones sourced from the bed of the river Jordan. A representative from each of the tribes had to go and gather a stone from the middle of the dried up riverbed before God returned the Jordan back to its pre-existing flooded condition.

This memorial was to be poignant reminder to all who looked upon it of what the Lord had powerfully and miraculously done for Israel. That regardless of the impassable nature of the swollen Jordan river, God was well able to fulfill His promises to them through the obedient actions of His servant, Joshua.

Let this be a reminder to all of us, as we launch out into another uncharted year, that God is still able to do the impossible and make good His promises, if we, like Joshua, act humbly and walk in obedience to all that He says.

In Joshua 4:20, it says, And Joshua set up at Gilgal the twelve stones they had taken out of the Jordan. He said to the Israelites, In the future when your descendants ask their fathers, ‘What do these stones mean?’ tell them, ‘Israel crossed the Jordan on dry ground.’ For the Lord your God dried up the Jordan before you until you had crossed over.”

As we move forward into a new decade, let’s not become like the Israelites often did, forgetting to remember what the Lord has done for us, often miraculously.

Let us not become preoccupied with the busyness of life that we fail to appropriately thank our loving Heavenly Father for all His kindness, goodness and mercy toward us during 2010. 

It’s time to stop and give Him thanks!

Now here’s a thought!

Looking back over your year, what memorial stones are you able to set up as a reminder to you, and to others as you share them, of what the Lord has done for you?

Take time in the next few days to STOP for a moment! Reflect back over the year. Look at your life with a heart of thanksgiving; even through those tough, uncertain and difficult times, He has been there with you through it all. Recall the things God has done in you, through you and for you over the past year. Remember His faithfulness, His provision, presence, strength, power and love.

Now take some time to thoughtfully and humbly express thanks to God for the specific things He has done in your life. Consider how He has bestowed blessings on you…regardless of the year you’ve had. One of the Psalm’s I often pray is Psalm 100 …it’s a real declaration of praise and thanksgiving! It speaks about giving thanks and praise, for the Lord is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations.

Friend, I hope we can journey together this coming year as we connect through my regular blogs.

Until next time, may our gracious and ever present God bless you abundantly as you look forward to the New Year; may His renewing presence transform and refresh you as you launch out into another new season in God.

 
Standing in His amazing grace! Print E-mail
Wednesday, 22 December 2010 15:50

In my last blog I shared that in times of loss God’s grace is where we will find incredible strength of heart, strength of purpose and strength of soul. It’s only God’s grace that can make up for our lack of personal strength in these difficult and often dark times. However, God’s grace is never static. He is always directing us towards freedom, longing for us to pursue our inheritance in Christ.

If we linger in our season of loss longer than we should, Satan knows that prolonged loss and grief will rob us of strength. Satan’s tactic therefore is to help us prolong our times of personal uncertainty and thereby rob us of our joy in Christ. This position will make us vulnerable, weak and exposed. Living in a perpetual state of uncertainty like this, will lead to defeatism and an unhealthy dependency on anything other than the grace of God. Such a position results in us having a diminished sense of purpose about life. However, the good news is, that loss can produce a new level of maturity.

Choosing to stand in God’s amazing grace – that’s not always easy, will require effort and focus. But as we stand, we become empowered by His presence – this amazing grace, to reach a higher level of perseverance that grants us new hope for the future.

Understand this, the person who has hope, has authority and influence!

However this does present us with a personal challenge. That of facing on the one hand, the darkness and difficulty of the unknown, yet learning to live with renewed vitality and gratitude on the other.

For the Christian, God’s grace enables us to take loss and disappointment into ourselves. To be enlarged by it so that our capacity to live life well and to know God intimately, increases. The outcome of pain endured will be the wonderful benefit of our soul being awakened more to God's eternal goodness and love, making it larger and filling it more with His divine nature. This journey of healing will go on until God’s full process of ‘restorative – grace’ is complete. This may happen long after a season of loss or disappointment is chronologically over.

So as we round out this year, let us with fresh determination grasp hold of God’s amazing life-transforming grace, regardless of the circumstances you might have experienced during the year. It’s through such hope in His empowering grace that clarity will dawn and fill our situations with comfort, restoration and a new season of joy.

God longs to start a resurrection and restoration process anywhere there’s been death, darkness, loss or confusion.

As 2011 dawns, be standing in His ‘amazing grace’?

 

 
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